Do you want to know what is love? Well, don’t look for it in your partners or spouses or even in your parents. This is not love. It is difficult to exist here because everything in the space between the two is logical, instinctive, reason and ownership based. What we experience here is just positive aligned thoughts and feelings towards someone that makes our experience rewarding and so we continue to transmit them among each other. The moment you step out of their logic and reason, something shifts in the space. This kind of love shifts to hurt.
If you want to access the permanent source of true and eternal love, you first need to practice forgiveness whenever you have been hurt. Only then will you be able to go beyond an instinct-based love and experience eternal love.
How can you do that? You can use the fact that consciousness is vast and spacious. In fact, it’s in the space of eternal love all things in this Universe exist.
Look around you now. Close your eyes and imagine a child’s face. Probably, someone whom you love the most in life and who put as much attention on the face. Notice how you feel, the love that you feel for the child is different from what you know, it is deep and authentic and it slowly makes you enter into a state of spirituality. When you are in a deep state, suddenly you will notice that the series of hurt for yourself or others that you have accumulated during the day or years somewhere in the body resurfaces and you will find yourself on the path of healing and empowerment. The shift that happens here is minute and subtle and is beyond the control of the conscious mind. The smile on the face of the child will take you to the stage of acceptance. Acceptance helps release your fears and hurts and reconnect with your body and seek forgiveness from yourself or others. If you connect to this ultimate state of forgiveness, you get the power of love.
Have you thought, about why this happens? because children don’t judge, resent, expect, or do wrong. They simply find joy in being with you. They don’t see if you are black or white, rich or poor, man or woman, criminal or noncriminal. They see, hear, understand and accept the way you are at that moment. They simply love being present with you. They just want you to smile, play and express yourself with them. They allow you to sense the space in the room. This is pure love, eternal love.
The more you practice connecting to this space around you and within you, the more love you will invite into your life. One needs to love, nonjudge, and forgive all at the same time. The whole process is to become better and not bitter.
What I want you to know is that this is not a mystical or a spiritual adventure, reserved for a few lucky people with time. This experience is for everyone. Living in eternal love is our birthright. To connect to your body, forgive everything in space, and live in eternal love.
